Key flaws….

He was appealing to the set… and thus gave away all his power in the interaction,

Everything else i say will be a subsect

Huge lack of self amusement… Every insult they threw at him could have easily been embraced and reflected, but he sat there letting them tool him

Came accross as very week…. He let the waitor tool him…

-He came in, with something that was fake that he was not entertained by..

Brother if you cannot entertain yourself how in the hell do you expect the other person to be entertained or intreged by you…

Theres such a thing for self belief….

Thats why the appocolpse works…

Thats why 10 second make outs work

Thats why same day lays work….

Very little to do with acctual Substance….

Far more to do with your own internal beliefs…..

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If you do not go in expecting nothing, comeing from nothing but your own pure self amusement and fufillment you are creating a whole within them…

You are pushing your own void onto them,

Redemption Songs

Songs of Freedom

Black

Sai, Black

Open with why are you here and what you’re going to do: “You guys seem friendly, I’m going to chat with you for two minutes and meet you.”

Then ask one of them an open-ended question: “What did you do today?”

Her: “I walked my cat.” [She makes some effort]
Bob: “Cool! I’ve always thought cats were not made to be locked up in the house. I think they are destined for higher deeds like running marathons or racing cars. My heart warms when I see a cat roam the world. What’s your name?”
Her: “Sandra.”
Bob: “I am Bob.”

06: I like his vacuum

08: He should have rewarded Sandra for making an effort. “Hi Sandra, it’s nice to meet you, and everyone as well! I am glad you spoke up. I like meeting new people but I am shy. I was getting getting nervous from the silence and ready to get up and leave, until you spoke. How is your night going? [to another woman.]”

18: He follows a question with a question. Instead relate first. “I just got here and haven’t felt the place out enough. What’s your take on it?” Also, his leaning in seems needy and creepy. Instead he can touch her on the shoulder with the back of his hand, then lean back and vacuum until she answers.

53: This seems like a good time for a long PAUSE, and then say whatever comes to mind… for me it was “No… I normally let my parrot do the talking while I pretend to be a pirate. ARRR. So, congratulations, you caught me on my good day!”

55: I would have found a way to reward that. “I like the way you think! Most women don’t come out and say stuff like that to strangers. I think I’m going to marry you. But your friend is looking at me with disapproval. Looks like I’ll have to win her over first. What’s your name?”

No offence meant RJ, and welcome to a great place to learn.

K (alumni)

I’ll start by saying that in my opinion as a new guy–the only really good thing that Bob did was to gather the guts to approach the women. I will give him credit for that.

I’ll try to find what he did that was a little bit correct.

02: “Hello ladies,” he says. “I can only stay for a minute.”
He gave a false time constraint so that was good but it was the first thing that he said–I just joined but that feels all wrong to me.

04: He sticks his hand out. “My name’s Bob.”
He introduced himself before he said anything of substance. At this point even if he were worth billions they don’t know it yet, so why would they care what his name is?

No suggestions, I’m new here and trying to learn.