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Wayne’s playlist is all about playing with expectations, and creating anticipation. His playlist is meant to accompany a make-out session that’s going to be remembered for a long time:
“Making out is like slow dancing. I like songs to which I can imagine myself moving slowing around someone’s body.”
Harry’s playlist is about being playful. He’s not afraid to blend the unexpected with the cliched, or to have fun:
“I like to think that there is something for every kind of mood here. Some sexy, some sweet, some nostalgic, some funny. I think it is important to avoid too many cliche mood-setters when you are with someone you want to smooch, as otherwise it can seem a little contrived.
Most importantly, have fun! Music is such a wonderful art form as well as one of the best aphrodisiacs in the right situation I think, so enjoy it! Pick some songs that are personal to you, and that get you in the mood. And try to make a specific playlist, so that Rammstein or something doesn’t come driving in on shuffle when the passion is reaching it’s intensity, as has happened to me before! God knows why that was on there. Having said this, maybe some of you are into that!”
Dan’s playlist is all about sensual romance, and enjoying being a great lover:
His playlist goes from the romantic to the tantric, and demonstrates his intentions of making whoever he is kissing a ‘repeat customer’ of his seduction style. Dan knows that kissing is the first major physical escalation to something else; but he doesn’t neglect all the steps leading up to sex. In fact he enjoys the in-between bit. What can we say the guy has some pretty dangerous sexual skills… that he may be teaching to us mere mortals at an event TBD very soon.
Hayley’s playlist shows how girls can want romance one minute, and BDSM the next:
“The music I put on indicates where I want the interaction to go, and what mood I’m in. This could be anything from explicitly sexual to implying that I feel like I have a deep romantic connection to you. Luckily soundtracks to interactions are pretty easy to interpret – anything with a high BPM and rude lyrics like ‘I’m a ho’ generally means I’m feeling naughty. However, anything that has mentions of love or an epic vibe to it could mean that I could be halfway to deciding that we’re destined to have a dramatic love story. You have been warned!
So what do you do after you’ve had an intensely romantic moment to Damien Rice, giggled at Marvin Gaye, got hot and heavy to Goldfrapp and had tantric tongue action to Indiogens?
Maybe you need help getting a girl to share the wonders of Elvis and errr James Blunt with?
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I see, thanks Hayley, please continue to write articles, I enjoy reading them given that they present a female perspective on things, spoken from the hearth with sincerity.
There is another situation when a girl chooses to play the virgin card with a guy she’s only interested in being friends with while having wild sex with somebody else that she finds more appealing from a sensual point of view.
How can one avoid being the chump?
I have to say I’ve never known a girl to do that in real-life. Think there’s some urban myth factor regarding how many girls would say something like that…. rather than just not returning your calls
hahaha. good one jimbo.
Hey Jimbo,
Pretty funny brother!
Henry,
There’s not much I can can say that Hayley hasn’t covered but for what it’s worth we’re always teaching clients to give women the power to say no. As Hayley said that is very empowering. I think the fact that she brought it up means she’s considering you as a possibility. Be cool and don’t be in a rush. Enjoy the makeout and ease her into the rest. If she’s uncomfortable back off and be understanding. The main thing is not acting as if you’re in a hurry, impatient, or angry. I’ll say it again Be Cool!
Dan
P.S. I’d suggest posting your question on the forum to get some other opinions
Henry,
You playlist is as follows:
Get Ready by The Temptations
All The Way by Celine Dion
King of Pain by The Police
Deep Inside by Metallica
Surgical Gloves by Raekwon
Oh, the Guilt by Nirvana
And if want to take it to the next level, there is another classic Nirvana song called “Rape me.”
Good luck!
Hi. Tell me, how do u respond to a gal when she tells u she’s a virgin, and u told her that u werent.
Hey Henry
It’s kind of a tough thing for a girl to admit that she’s a virgin as it shows her vulnerability. I remember when I was in that sitiuation I was just worried that the guy would run a mile. I was mainly worried the guy would not be interested anymore because I thought his expectations may have been different to mine. Thanks to some pretty intense social conditioning I think lots of girls want their first time to be ‘special’, and I remember being concerned that whilst I wanted a relationship that the guy I was with may have just wanted to sex.
So whilst there is no problem with you being more experienced than her sexually, I think that it is important that you handle the situation with sensitivity and make sure you know what each other wants. If you sleep with her, then she may well expect more than just casual sex. If a fling is all you’re after that’s fine, but make sure she knows that you’re not really interested in a relationship right now. If she is totally aware of where you stand then it’s her choice whether sleeping with you would be the right idea or not. Giving people choice and being open is actually really empowering- and if she does decide to sleep with you, you know it’s because she was really into you and didn’t feel ‘pressured’ into it or thought that by sleeping with you you would become her boyfriend (girls often make slightly silly assumptions like this).
If she backs off, then be understanding. By not retracting your affection she may come round to the idea when the time is right… and in the mean time there will be plenty of horney, non-virgins out there to share your make-out playlist with in the mean time
Good luck HQ