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Charm School Bootcamp

Bootcamp

Learn to meet women, build attraction and create a sexually-charged vibe in a natural way. Our Bootcamp is a two-day event during which you will work closely with one of our instructors who will demonstrate the method by approaching women, making connections, getting numbers and more. Then he will coach you to do the same. That may sound daunting, but don’t worry. We begin slowly, just getting to know you at first and then over the course of the weekend we lead, cajole and pull you into interactions with women you find attractive.

“Its amazing how much I’ve changed since I signed up four months ago. This has not just been about learning to meet women though - you guys showed millions of high-def colors of life to a guy who’d only seen black and white.”

- Kevin, Sydney Australia

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Most of our clients end up experiencing sexually-charged interactions with women they are attracted to. They exchange phone numbers, make-out, receive invitations and more. But these “trophies” are really secondary to learning the skills. There is a saying about teaching a man to fish being more important than giving him a fish.

Bootcamp

We believe that the focus on long-term skill development will pay off by developing the confidence to know you can meet people consistently. We feel as if focusing on the skills above any short term success will lead you to a place of abundance. Our founder and CEO Wayne “Juggler” Elise many years ago set a goal for himself to feel as if his skills could enable him to go out and meet one woman he was attracted to in one day of walking about the world. We still feel that sort of thing makes a great goal.

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What you will learn:

  • To be able to walk up and consistently open a conversation with women. We want you to do this not relying on a memorized monologue but rather to garner commitment from women and create two-way dialogues that are both fun and engaging, and have a sense of authenticity about them. This last part is really necessary for women to feel sexually attracted to you.
  • To be able to escalate that conversation from platonic to personal and on to a flirty (sexually charged) conversation. Those are the three vibe-states of most interactions.
  • To learn the basics of handling the logistics of escalation. These are things such as learning how to move your interactions from standing to sitting, going on instant dates, handling phone numbers, and setting up future meetings.
  • To project confidence by actively demonstrating your self-acceptance. This is done through DQ, strong Vacuum, etc.
  • Learn the basics of applying the Juggler/Charisma Arts philosophy to your life.

What comes next:

  • YOU CAN SIGN UP HERE . If you have any problems with this please send an email to info@charismaarts.com
  • You will be sent an email with directions on how to log into our online system and fill out a pre-event interview. This helps the instructors get to know you and your goals. Only your instructors have access to this information.
  • We will email you some exercises to practice before your weekend. Some guys find these a challenge while some find these ridiculously easy. Whatever your ‘level’ get out and try to get some approach practice before the weekend.
  • You’ll be able to immediately download Wayne’s 50 minute, Mini-Seminar, his eBook, and be emailed exercises to prepare you for the weekend.
  • You will be able to login to our system at anytime and see event details such as meeting locations, hotel suggestions, etc. as well as download your digital products.
  • The maximum number of clients is two for each instructor.
  • Instructors will email you to set up an initial phone consultation.

Before the Bootcamp: Your instructor will want to talk to you on the phone ahead of time if possible so he can get to know you and suggest exercises. Instructors are generally proactive in arrange this call but if you have any difficulty contact us at info@charismaarts.com

Typical Schedule…

Saturday 12Noon - 7 PM. Day Game

Meet your instructor(s) at a cafe or hotel lobby. This location can be found under profile after you sign up. You will find your instructors are not hot-shot “pick up artists.” They are normal guys just like you who happen to be skilled at meeting women and teaching those skills. They are passionate about their work and care about your success. Check out our instructor profiles for more info.

We will run a few basic exercises and work on conversation skills. We will make certain you know the game plan for the upcoming in-field approaches. Our goal is to begin to make you comfortable approaching and applying the method, as well as making sure you know how to escalate an interaction. We will often begin to find your sticking points in the first hour of meeting.

We then visit bookstores, coffee houses and maybe an art museum. Daytime locations are the best places to meet women in our opinion. And this is the best place to begin to train you on our methods. We can see and hear each other easily. You will watch instructors demonstrate how to approach, be likable and then escalte the interaction towards something exciting. After you see it done you will have learned the right vibe and pace of an interaction. We can begin coaching you through your own approaches and provide feedback.

Much is possible with training in a daytime venue. We will work on teaching you to get a strong phone number and to escalate when appropriate to an instant date. However every student is different and we must focus on what you can learn in a weekend. Some clients have met their love connections on the first day and others are more limited to working on opening with the proper vibe. The important thing is to build you up with a strong foundation going forward.

Saturday 9 PM - 1:30 AM

Night Game In-field coaching: We take you to a nighttime social venue. This can be much fun. Your instructors will demonstrate approaches and bring you into interactions. They will show you how to win the trust of groups of people so that they will allow you to be alone with the girl you find attractive. Later they will encourage you to approach and escalate. They will gently critique and adjust your words and actions. This is done very low key and under the radar of others around. We never talk about or draw attention to the fact that we are working with you on these skills. Our goal is to show you how to make meeting women fun and effective.

You will probably have figured out your strengths and weaknesses at this point so this night you will really focus on those parts of your interactions. Yes you will meet attractive women. But more importantly you will work on the skills and inner ideas to make you good at the process of meeting women.

We’ll do a recap around 1:30 AM and briefly discuss what happened over the course of the night, exchange feedback and make plans for the next day.

Sunday 12NOON - 6PM.

You will reconnect with your coaches on Sunday afternoon at noon. You will go over the events of the day before and receive more specific advice from your coaches. Then it is back out into the field for more daytime approaches and coaching. This day is typically where many of the ideas begin to click for our clients.

The day ends with an hour consultation. This is typically a sit-down talk over sticking points, goals and future plans. However you may do more daytime approaches if your instructors want to touch up a few skills last minute.

“The difference between reading about this and working on it live is as big as the difference between throwing a bullet and shooting it from a gun. I learned more in three days than I did in 8 months of reading eBooks and listening to materials. I’m now bursting with confidence and I know I’ll never be the same.”

-Rich from Detroit, MI

After your event…

We email you the 7 week follow-up course.

You become an Alumni. That means you have access to our online Alumni Discussion Forum, qualify for discounts on future events and get invited to Alumni Super Weekends.

You also receive an hour of phone coaching with your instructors. The best way to use this is to break it up into four fifteen minute calls when you need them.

We host our Charm School bootcamps in major cities worldwide - check the schedule to the right to see if we’re headed to a city near you. Many events fill up fast but the the moment we decide on which city we’ll be in you’ll find it on the schedule.

Details…

  • Attire: Wear nice clothes. Be well groomed. Trim all nose hairs. This stuff really makes a difference.
  • A word about approach anxiety. Everyone feels some anxiety about approaching strangers. Best thing is not to fight it but to accept it. The most experienced stage performers will tell you that they still get butterflies. Just recognize those feelings as the same you get doing something you are excited about.
  • Some guys feel as if they run out of things to say to a woman. This is mostly a result of taking too much burden on yourself in your conversations with women. The bootcamp is not the place to fix that. Instead we will fix it right now. When this happens, say to her with a smile, “I really like talking to you but I’ve just run out of things to say.” Cheers.
  • Note that we don’t do ‘practice sets’. Yes, it is easier talking to someone who does not attract you. But one of our instructors, Rob says it best, “You don’t want to waste anyone’s time.” We believe in approaching people who interest and attract you. Flirting with someone who attracts you is more genuine.

We believe in the value of our education to you. But in the event that you are unsatisfied, we offer a refund in accordance with our refund policy .

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We love communicating with our clients so if you have questions about a bootcamp don’t hesitate to contact us. Email: events@charismaarts.com

or via phone: North America: +1 (310) 697-3780
London: 0207 096 8410

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